Oh Happy Commerce, or, “I felt like I was forcing myself on a 40+ year old fat sex slave”
“Where the hell else is a middle aged man gonna hook up with a young sexy hot sex slave in real life? Like the old saying goes, we want a ***** [whore] in the bedroom but a lady in the kitchen. Just don’t expect you gf [girlfriend] to be as whory as the real whores. You’ll be disappointed. Even though we have plenty of sex, I still crave that AMP [Asian Spa] experience just for the fun of it, and I doubt if I’ll ever get over it. So beware what you’re getting into, it can be very addicting.”
Thus do the patrons of Rhode Island’s prostitution industry speak of their experience, as related by Melanie Shapiro in a Citizens Against Trafficking review of johns’ online commentary (PDF). Note that the misogyny extends even to personal relationships.
Advocates for legalized prostitution like to present the image of a clean-cut client looking for a little release by turning to a fully self-aware young woman using the occupation as a stepping stone to build a better life. That’s a fantasy. The objectification of the prostitute and the corruption of the culture is the reality.